In November of 2019, we invited state employees to tell us about a random act of kindness they’ve recently given or received. The first 300 submissions are featured below.
| My supervisor, Donna, often brings me a Diet Coke from McDonalds when she is out running errands at lunchtime. She doesn’t go to McDonalds for any purpose except to pick up a drink for me because she knows that I enjoy it. She makes my day brighter and I love being surprised by her and knowing that she appreciates me and the work that I do. |
| I recently went out of my way to return a wallet to a person who had dropped it in a parking lot. |
| I was in line for gas and when I pulled up I was told the person in front of me (who was now gone) had paid for my gas. This made me feel really great that a random stranger had though to bless someone they would not see and wouldn’t even see their reaction. |
| People at work bringing in treats to share with others. It is the little things that make our work environment happy. |
| I received a “Super Staff Award” for forming car pools to go to events together. |
| Just this morning, I found a sticky note on my desk from an incredible co-worker named Martha Kellams: “An inspirational thought that fits you: ‘Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.’ You’re a rarity – you do both! 😊” |
| Our security guard James (Jim) is an amazing guy. Just yesterday, I was heading out to the courthouse and it looked like it was going to rain. He offered his umbrella to me. I felt that was very kind of him and thanked him. It made my day that someone was willing to offer up their umbrella, just because it looked like it might rain while I had to walk to the courthouse. J |
| My mom and I were getting gas this past weekend and as my mom was handing her credit card out the window, a lady came running up and said she would like to pay for mom’s gas. She explained that she was doing it to pay it forward, then handed a card to mom that had a little saying about random acts of kindness and the wish that mom pay it forward and pass that same card along. It was a nice feeling, and on inspired mom and I to talk about what we could do to pay it forward. |
| I work in a very toxic environment and struggle even walking through the door the other day a newer employee left a anonymous note on my desk telling me I am awesome and thanking me for all I do. It is hanging in my space to encourage me and it totally made my week |
| Just last night, as I was walking out of a grocery store, a little boy not older than five held the door open for me and for several other people. That was act #1. Act #2 was my 14 year old son telling him he was a good kid and giving him a dollar bill (Act #2). Act #3 was the little boy’s mother walking over to my son and telling him thank you, and she went on to round up several shopping carts so the courtesy clerk wouldn’t have to walk so far. |
| Something that I always practice is “a compliment (if not more) a day makes positivity stay”. Find a stranger and compliment them on something. It makes the person you’re complimenting feel good about themselves, and you get a boost for saying something nice. |
| Recently I was in a drive through and bought the persons order that was behind me….just because. The little things do mean a lot |
| I was very, very sick recently and spent more than a month out on leave. One of my coworkers checked on me by text or email at least one every day while I was gone. One day I told her I was really craving a specific kind of soup. On my first day back, when I was only in for a few hours, she brought in a big batch of that soup. It reminded me one reason why I wanted to come back to work, even when I still wasn’t feeling 100% better. |
| This morning, before work I reached out to 3 people and told them how much they meant to me. My personal trainer, my estitician and my good friend. |
| When a coworker recently retired, he gave me his blanket that he uses in the office when it is chilly. I smile and remember him and the good moments we had working together whenever I use his blanket. J |
| During the recent Great Shake Out, it was raining. I walked over to a stranger who did not have a rain coat or umbrella of her own, from upstairs, whom I had never met, and shared my umbrella with her. It was not an overly large umbrella but at least our heads stayed dry. |
| A few months ago I adopted a puppy from a shelter and he recently had some health issues. I came in to work the other day with an email asking me how he was doing, and this employee continued to follow-up with me and see how he was. And it wasn’t someone I have a relationship with outside of work, so it meant even more. This person probably doesn’t realize how much it meant to just have someone ask how he was doing and show care and concern. Their quick email showed so much kindness. |
| Someone in front of me bought my Starbucks on my way to a meeting yesterday, made my day better! |
| Today one of my newer coworkers took on a task that I would normally have to do. I manage our office’s 50+ cars, and if child safety seats are not where they should be, frequently I have to go outside and get them. She took one from my desk that needed to go to its assigned vehicle, and in the process found others that didn’t belong in that car. She attended to getting about 5 car seats back where they belong. |
| One of my co-workers left some very expensive, prize-winning cheese in her car last night. The cheese, from Oregon, just recently won a world class title.She called the company and was told that the cheese needed to be eaten immediately and wouldn’t keep without refrigeration. She brought it to work and walked through our cubes like a high-class waiter, sharing the taste experience with others. |
| I randomly told my co-worker how much I appreciate them recently. Was super simple – took mins to do (maybe seconds) but hopefully it helped him (I know it helped me)! |
| My manager, Regan Dugger consistently gives positive feedback on my work. This last time I met with him he said “ Donna you are just as smart as all the other people in this office and you have a lot to offer” |
| It is that time of year where leaves everywhere in the neighborhood where I live. After ranking leaves I my yard I know some of the neighbors next to me do not have the capacity to rank leaves as well, so I just continue ranking in there yards and move them to my yard to pick up. |
| Gas attendants are often overlooked and are typically on the low end of the pay scale. My husband and I have made it a practice to give a $5 tip to the gas attendant when we fill up our vehicles. The attendants are often surprised and want to know why. We tell them we are blessed so we can bless others and that we appreciate what they do for us. We have often been told how we’ve just made their day, and smiles appear where before there often has been tired resignation. Their joy makes our day, and you can’t help but smile in return. |
| While at Chipotle on Monday, I came across a WWII veteran waiting for his wife to get out of their car. I thanked him for his service and told him Happy Veteran’s Day! As I was waiting in line to order with my 8 year old daughter, she asked if we could buy their dinner. I told her that was an awesome idea! Even though they had already paid and were eating we got them a gift card for their next visit. I spoke with the wife and told her that her service was just as much appreciated for her sacrifice of waiting for him to return from the war. I thought it was a great event for my young daughter to learn about random acts of kindness! |
| Here is a report of an act of kindness. I am training some new hires, and yesterday I came to work to see that one of them, Amber Shaw, had gifted me with this cute “ring for coffee” bell. She knows I’m a coffee lover. I appreciated the gesture, and it really brightened up my morning! |
| I have a colleague, Roni, who exudes kindness to her coworkers. One of her favorite activities, for example, is to go to the Multnomah County Book Sale and find book treasures for all of our children! Recently, I adopted a dog. Roni got for me a doggie bag holder for my leash, a favorite doggie item of hers. She brings tablecloths to our all-day meetings so that snacks and drinks have a homey feel. She emails us when she finds a quote or experiences a moment that highlights our strengths. Oh, was I only supposed to give one example?? It’s hard to stop with Roni! |
| I received kindness by my coworker when my windshield wiper quit working and he helped me get the rainx on. Another coworker that same day gave me a cupcake. It was a good day 😊 |
| At the Department of Revenue, Personal Tax and Collections Section, we have quarterly sign-ups for Agent of the Day. Three months are posted in the office for agents to sign up for two spots each month. One of our teleworkers asked if someone could help her get signed up because she would not be in the office until next week. I told her I would be happy to do that for her and she sent me her proposed dates. I got her signed up and let her know she was ready to go. She was very appreciative of the help. |
| A coworker held the door for today. It was much appreciated. |
| Last Friday, I stopped at Starbuck’s on the way in to work. My manager Annick Benson-Scott, for the last 4 weeks has been coming down to the parking garage every morning at 7:00 to meet me and help me to the office. You see, I broke my heal in September and have been on crutches and/or a knee scooter since 10/1. I wanted to show Annick I appreciate her efforts so I ordered her one of the big fancy Starbuck’s coffee drinks. With my small plain coffee, the total came to $7. When I got to the window, I was told that the car in front of me had paid for my order. Of course after being grateful, the only thing to do is to pay for the car behind me. So Annick’s kindness led me to buy her a token of appreciation. In turn, I was the beneficiary of someone else’s kindness and the person behind me, the beneficiary of my kindness. Kindness really does spread . . . |
| Jill Verbeck with the Reproductive Health program leaves me positive messages on my white board when I am away from my desk. It warms my heart every time I find them (often times she writes small so I don’t see it right away). |
| Last Thursday I taught a class at a facility. I shared a personal story related to the topic. At the end I had people come up and thank me for sharing and explained how it impacted them.And when we (my husband SRCI Superintendent Brad Cain) extended kindness. My husband likes to visit staff who are in the hospital in his off time. I always attend with him if I can. On Monday we learned of a retired staff who had been hospitalized. He is a friend of ours and he has a terminal condition. We spent the morning with him and his family in the hospital sharing stories and being present. His wife is a current employee so we wanted her to know we support her in this process as well. |
| As an act of kindness, 1x a week when I splurge and get my Blackrock coffee, I always pay for the person’s drink who is behind me in line. I do this because there was a day about a year ago when I had an awful day. I went to get a coffee, and when I pulled up, I was told that the person in front of me already paid for it. This random act of kindness turned my day around. The fact that someone paid for my coffee, just be kind, almost brought me to tears while putting a smile on my face. I hope that by purchasing someone’s coffee, I am putting a smile on their face as that person did for me. J |
| My mother has been at a rehab facility for the last 2 months. When I visit her at meal times there are times some of the people staying there can’t cut their food or need additional supports. It breaks my heart to see our elderly struggling so I ask if it would be ok if I help them with their food or if there is anything else I can get them like something to drink, butter, crackers, etc. |
| I found an unexpected Dutch Bros. drink at my desk! So thoughtful! 😊 |
| I am currently working on the Integrated Eligibility (IE) system as Floor Support for the testers conducting User Acceptance Testing. Every day is busy and sometimes hectic, but we all stay positive and encourage one another. One day about a month ago, a couple UAT testers came back from their morning break and surprised me and another floor support coworker with Starbucks iced beverages. This little act made me feel appreciated and valued for the work I was doing that day, and put a smile on my face for the rest of the day! |
| A co-worker (Shu Liang) who is leaving DOC for a new position at DHS recently took the whole team out for lunch. It should’ve been us that took her out to lunch, but instead she treated us. Instead of a feeling of loss, we all felt very special and united. |
| Here at the OLCC, we have a tradition each Halloween of giving out “Boos”. These are random gifts that are left at each other’s desks with a pay-it-forward spirit. A big part of the fun is trying to guess who “Boo’ed” you. It’s not limited by department, so it could be anyone at the agency who left a nice surprise. It’s a great way to get into the holiday spirit. J |
| I recently lent something to a co-worker that was in need. It felt good to fill the need, and it was right thing to do. |
| I received an email from a co-worker just yesterday that made my day. I have worked for the DHS OC&P for about 8 years and it’s not often that someone takes the time to show their appreciation. I appreciate that Brett Sherry took the time to do so. |
| one of our team’s “floor neighbors” supported us and the Toy Drive by purchasing a crazy amount of fundraising bake sale treats to share with everyone on the floor yesterday. This is just one example of his kindness and generousity. |
| My 13 year old daughter was home from school on her 30 minute lunch when she noticed our elderly neighbor raking his leaves. She went across the street and offered to help. I was so proud : ) |
| I led the applause (read ‘standing ovation’!) after an obviously nervous co-worker finished her office-wide presentation! |
| Here in The Dalles office of DEQ I send out a weekly email on Monday mornings called “Monday Motivation” which range from quotes to mantras. I’ve been doing this for about 4-5 months now and I’ve |
| Recently a member of my unit moved out of their house. Once I heard about it, I offered to help and brought my truck along over the span of a few evenings after work to get the larger items (furniture and the like) moved. My teammate was able to save some time, sweat, and money in their moving process and I got to know them a little bit better (and got to meet their dogs, haha). |
| I recently purchased lunch for the vehicle behind me in the drive through line at Taco Bell. |
| My coworker is training to become a yoga instructor. I have a notepad with a moose doing yoga that I bought on a recent trip to Alaska. I wrote “You are going to make an awesome yoga instructor!” on it and left it on her desk. She put it up in her cube. |
| I received this Thankyou note with 3 Godiva Chocolate on my desk from a co-worker (Tina Juel) today for helping her exchange out her Class 2 safety vest for a Class 3 safety vest. |
| My grandson and I were at Beverly Beach over the weekend. He took our dog for a walk on the beach after dark and came across a dog wandering alone. Being the dog lover that he is he wandered around with the dog until he found it’s owners. Turns out it belonged to one of two older couples that were on the beach having a campfire. They were so impressed with his kindness that they invited him to sit and have some s’mores. He sat a talked with then for over an hour. He is 17 but had shown enough maturity to sit and chat with a group of older folks. |
| In our workplace I find many acts of kindness – most recent and specific is a manager that always greets me with a cheerful “Good morning and usually a line from of a song that relates to my first name, Holly. J |
| I always make time to hold the elevator for someone if they’re obviously walking that way even if it takes an extra minute it’s worth it especially in the morning. There’s nothing worse than be 20 steps away and having someone let the elevator close because their eyes were glued to their phone. |
| I recently placed words of encouragement on random computer monitors in my work group. |
| Gave kudos to our temp mailman’s supervisor. |
| My coworker brought a book of daily encouragements with her to work, and each day she picks one and shares it with me very intentionally. It’s made such a difference in our small corner. I appreciate her. |
| Whether it is a co-worker or a complete stranger, I always greet them with a smile and say “hello”. |
| Justin Sheraden of ASD Budget Services just randomly paid my monthly water club dues recently, without saying anything. It was a bright spot of kindness in my day! |
| My supervisor (Brianna Elisara). Her husband recently lost quite a bit of weight. Yesterday she brought in a lot of his clothes he no longer needs for myself and another co-worker to split up and take. These are good pants and shirts that we can wear to work that will last us a long time. |
| I came home last evening after a particularly difficult week of long days and fighting a cold. On the counter was a homemade blintz made by my college son whom I don’t get to see very often because of his own busy schedule of work and classes. Nothing could have been more welcome at that moment. I was tired, not feeling great, and hungry. Plus, every mom cherishes those random displays of love from their grown child. |
| I gave a coffee cup to one of my employees this morning because he was having a bad day. And, in light of this awesome email, during our Huddle today, I am having a coffee card give away to the first person who can list 3 ways to show positive reinforcement/encouragement to our clients/co-workers during our day! This is our new practice we are learning through R3. |
| Kind words in a card go a long way…and so Thankful for recent words from a coworker in a Birthday card that went beyond the normal Birthday sentiments to a personal statement as to my value in the group. “Kindness Exemplified” by Julie Stratton |
| I am constantly in contact with so many different people in the agency who assist me to do my job as an office manager. With the roll out of Workday, I have seen large amounts of stress from each person I contact at each step of the new process. Payroll, HR, Service desk, Cafrac etc… Everyone has been over worked and navigating the new system is difficult and every week peoples roles have changed and you go to person is not the person from the prior week. It leads to a lot of frustration.. What I always tend to do, is when they assist me, I always send them a Thank you and tell them I appreciate them. |
| My first contact was Lizzy Martin, a very bubbly and friendly person. As I was led into my interview, I was met by a group of people ready to ask questions concerning my position I had applied for. My first reaction was, “Oh No!!!! the gauntlet!!!!” I was doomed, or so I thought… However, as I was introduced to the various team members that were in my interview session, there was an immediate sense of peace. The interview, the people, the questions, the responses…all “fit like a glove”. I came away with a feeling like I had always been there and the various attendees were like family… a rare occurrence indeed in today’s workforce. Susan Haupt, the facilitator of the interview a very special person. Kim Taylor, my supervisor. Carrie Worley, office support; an assortment of others that I am sure I will leave someone out, but Wade Holaday, Bob Marshall, Sophie Brown, Curran Mohney…all part of the interview process. Their demeanor and “down-home” attitude was an absolute joy to experience. |
| Here in the Right of Way section at the TLC building, we have an “Employee Engagement Team” that meets regularly and facilitates Engagement activities with our section to boost morale in the workplace as well as bringing together our entire section to live out ONE ODOT! We do things from bringing in treats randomly to activities at our all staff meetings monthly to make our section feel like they are all valued and cared about. We have also recently started a “driving push” positivity box where team members from our section can write positive notes about another coworker and we read them out loud at our meeting and present 1 lucky person with a small token of gratitude. |
| I have a coworker, Wendy Flores-Gonzales who goes out of her way to make the workplace a little brighter. She has started a can collection & takes in our recycling to collect the funds which we use for office parties, coffee, and creamer – the essentials 😊 She is also one of the 1sts to jump in and decorate our area festively for any holiday season. She is one of the most positive examples we have in our office 😊 |
| I work in the Inorganic Section of the DEQ Laboratory and every Monday I bring treats in for my co-workers. I put the treats in our small break/conference room and the Inorganic Section Chemists (and other Lab Staff who have discovered that I do this) love checking out what I brought in for them |
| I’ve just recently adopted a very sick dog (Martin) who has tested positive for heartworm. If you know anything about heartworm, you know that it’s nasty and pervasive in dog populations in the southern US, but not very prevalent in the Pacific Northwest. In any case, I knew nothing about the treatment, or how horrible it would be seeing an innocent dog go through injections near his spine. I’ve received anonymous little bags of dog treats in my mailbox at work ever since I adopted Martin last month. I’m not sure who is giving them to me, but it has let me know that I am not alone in my journey to bring him back to good health. This small gesture has made my day more than once; such a thoughtful thing for someone to do, and to ask nothing in return. It has been a very positive random act of kindness in my life |
| I was recently received a random act of kindness from my coworker last Friday. I was having a decent day but she randomly asked if she wanted to go to lunch with me and it would be her treat. It made me feel like I was part of the team and I am fairly new to the agency so this defiantly helped place that puzzle piece of feeling wanted in the workplace. This gave me a push for wanting to do the same for her in the future and for our others within the agency. |
| I’ve had two people make positive comments about the shirt and tie combination I’m wearing today. |
| I recently volunteered to assist one of my colleagues with offering to collect her bike from a store that she was having trouble with the store dropping it off for her. It is her only means of transportation other than public transport to get around. There were a few hang ups even for me collecting the bike, but I was determined to not leave without it for her because I knew how much she depended on it. I was able to bring the bike back to work for her and felt great that I was able to have a positive and kind influence on her life. She has been going through a rough patch lately so I think it really helped her mood. |
| Today, my random act of kindness was that I noticed a coworker wasn’t herself and we went into a room and I listened to her frustrations. We talked it out and I gave her some positive affirmations. I helped her come up with some goals to work towards that will help alleviate some of her frustrations. We left the room feeling much better than we did before. She emailed me a little later to thank me for my kindness, which is nice, but not why I do it. My purpose statement is “I am a rock of encouragement and support” and I am here to help others in any way that I can. |
| Last year my mother passed away Christmas morning. As you can imagine it was devastating for me and my family. After I came back to work from my bereavement leave a customer commented that she was glad I was back. She said she’d been praying for me and pulled a small angel pin on a card with a prayer on it and gave it to me to help me in my grief journey. It was one of the most touching things that ever happened to me in my entire life. |
| I recently received a Thank you card from our District Wildlife Biologist. He was thanking me and the front office for all the assistance we give. It was a surprise to find in my cubby and made my afternoon. |
| Each Thankful Tuesday we play some sort of quick game, puzzle, scramble, I spy or other entertaining and brain teasing challenge and then everyone who participates gets a little gift or sorts. Nothing fancy, just a little item. |
| LOVE this project! Can’t wait to see it take off within our state offices and hear everyone’s stories of kindness. Above is a constant reminder that I keep at my desk |
| As for a kind act received: I was nominated and awarded Officer of the Quarter a week or so ago. The things my fellow staff mentioned about me make me feel extremely humbled and proud of the content that I provide to them. Those kudos go a long way and make the workplace a much more desirable place to return to day after day. |
| McKenzie Placek, DAS, came into my office and helped my get my computer working much better. Her willingness to help an office mate is greatly appreciated and considered a random act of kindness, since she has no responsibility to help me! |
| So I just started here a few months ago, and I finally sent out my own full report this week. My supervisor was really happy that I was catching on so quickly. He congratulated me on finishing my first report and when he headed out for the day he stopped by to tell me great work today! |
| The random act of kindness I wanted to mention happened this week when a coworker (Cindy Garza) baked cookies for the team. This was a wonderful gesture on her part to take her time and resources to do this for others. It is also worth mentioning that one coworker loved these cookies so much that when he asked if there were any left (there weren’t) she brought in another batch the next day! Besides the smile, I can’t think of a better symbol for kindness than a cookie 😉 |
| I was headed to a store a few weeks ago and started to pull into a parking spot when a young man cut me off took the space got out and pointed and laughed. Needless to say I was upset. I found another spot went in and did my shopping and was still fuming when I left the store. I decided to stop and get something to eat on the way home. I hit the drive through at Popeye’s and started a talk with myself that the only damage done was to me by my frustration and anger. When I got up to the drive through window I decided to change that attitude and I paid for my food and then paid the tab for the car behind me. The folks at the windows were surprised and delighted. They stuffed extra food in my order and thanked me. I left feeling much better and hoped I had made others feel the same. |
| We have a couple of Operations Managers here at Forestry who take the time each morning to walk down the halls and personally acknowledge each employee on the Finance side of the building. One of them does fist bumps, the other one personally says good morning to each of us by name. The fact that they take time out of their busy schedule to let us know that we matter makes a difference to me. I appreciate their kindness and acknowledgement. |
| A colleague noticed I like sweaters so she gave me a beautiful sweater that didn’t work for her, but she could have just given it to Goodwill, so I thought that was very kind. |
| I like to occasionally send a kudos to my coworkers’ boss to recognize the good work they are doing. Not usually just for a specific task, but when I see them faithfully grinding away and doing a great job at it. It’s nice to be recognized for our daily grind and not just the highlights or special accomplishments |
| I was grocery shopping with my two young kids. I was feeling very overwhelmed and trying hard to maintain my patience. An older woman came up to us and mentioned how hard raising kids can be. She then gave me a wonderful compliment on how I was doing. It was so kind of her and happened right when I needed it. I think I will always remember her and am so thankful she took the time to help a stranger |
| When I first started working for the state, there were so many rules and processes to learn. There were a few colleagues who were always willing to point me in the right direction, send me a form or an example, or help me figure out who I needed to contact. Even now that I’ve been here a few years, I know that there are people I can go to for help. The kindness of being willing to lend a hand or think through a problem is something I really appreciate about working here. |
| I had a medical emergency at work. Not only were my co-workers there to help me, call 911, and be a support to me while the paramedics were on their way, but others wished me well as I left the building via stretcher. I remember their smiles. As I was recovering at home, two of the staff I manage brought us food…delicious homemade lasagna and a week’s worth of crock pot meals with lots of fixings, along with a lovely card signed by a lot of analysts in our unit. A few days later, I had a beautiful bouquet of flowers delivered that were from another team I manage. |
| I just recently, last week, lost my mom. I received several text messages from co-workers to my personal cell phone letting me know they were thinking of me at the time. |
| Our section has a huge whiteboard where an admin posts a question of the month for the rest of us to scribble responses (anonymously). Usually it’s light and fluffy: what’s your favorite summer food, best Halloween costume, etc. This month’s question, however, was brilliant: “What do you admire most about your cube neighbor?” The responses have been so wonderful that just reading them every time I pass the whiteboard has been spirit-lifting and heart-warming. Regardless of how many people end up jotting down thoughts, just the 1) mere fact that someone is asking the question; and 2) the variety of posts that show admiration, respect, humor, kindness and, yes, love; have been amazing. I’m so grateful for the two admin staff who thought it up and dared to step beyond the “what’s your favorite book” level of inquiry. And, I’m so humbled and pleased to be working in an office in which my colleagues feel the way they do about their workmates. |
| I wanted to reach out and talk about my manager. I started working at the Board of Pharmacy in August and Chrisy Hennigan made sure that this was a smooth transition for me. She even priced out parking lots for me when I started here so I could park my vehicle by the building. Chrisy is always so happy to see all of her employees every day. She always asks about our day or our weekend and never asks for anything in return. She is a positive driving force in this office who has the respect of everyone in it. When anything happens she wants us to know that we can come to her to let it out. She is a great state representative and an even better manager. |
| A few weeks back my wife and I were driving through Portland when the rains were pouring like someone dumped a bucket out the sky. Naturally, it was colder than a polar bear nose as well. So we stopped off at McDonald’s for some joe cause I love my caffeine and the warmth was greatly desired. We got our coffee and didn’t make it two blocks before we got stopped at a red light. At that light was a gentleman with a sign looking for any help he could get. This fellar was soaked to the bone and looked like he hadn’t had a good day in quite some time. I looked at my coffee, looked at my wife, looked back at my coffee, looked at the rain, and then I made the decision to help this guy out. I rolled down the window and waved him to our car. When he came over, I gave him my coffee and told him to get some warmth into his bones. After that, we drove the long ride home and that was that. I hope he got warm and I hope his day was at least a little bit better. |
| Last Friday morning my husband and I drove into Bentley’s coffee shop for a morning treat. There was a woman in a car who had apparently pulled into the parking lot from the back. Other cars were not letting her into the line to place her order. My husband and I waved her into the line ahead of us even though the back of our pickup was hanging out in the street. When it was our turn to place our order the young man told us that the woman in the car ahead had asked to pay for our order. How kind and generous of her. My husband ran over to her car to thank her for her generosity. By letting her into the line in front of us and she paying for our coffees I believe it made all of our day. It is so nice to start the morning with friendly gestures. |
| I went to McDonald’s for breakfast the other day, and a homeless person was sitting outside in the cold with ruined shoes. He had just been asked to leave because he stayed longer than the restaurant would allow with purchase. I went in and bought him a coffee and a breakfast, then took him to buy boots and a better jacket. Once we were done, I took him back to McDonalds, bought him another coffee and a gift card so he could stay as long as he wanted in the warm restaurant. I also gave him some phone numbers for shelters he could try to stay in that I looked up on my phone. |
| I works in a relatively small department in a relatively small agency. All of us do things for each other like make sure there is always coffee, bagels, food, candy, chocolate, fruit and veggies. Whatever is needed so if anyone forgets breakfast, lunch or needs a snack there is always something. We all take care of each other and even let people in other departments know they need anything, come visit. |
| I went through the Arby’s drive through, paid, got my food and the cashier gave me my change and I drove off. When I stopped to put my change in my wallet, I noticed that she gave me an extra dollar so I drove back through the drive through and I said, “I think you gave me an extra dollar.” She said, “no, it was $7.99 and I gave you a penny and $2.00.” (I gave her a $10) I thought it was $8.99. I confirmed the amount of my food and thanked her and said, “I just didn’t want your till to be off”. She appreciated that I came back. |
| Cat Green is a very hard working Office AS1 that helps everyone out in the office, no matter great or small. She makes sure our meetings are up to date and arranged, all the way to note taking, and help with all other redeem projects. As to rearranging the office and making all the phone calls needed to make things happen when no one else has time to do so. we are grateful to have her here with us. |
| Many years ago when I was busy raising five active sons we were dining out at a local restaurant. It was not an inexpensive meal with our large family. When it came time to pay for our dinner we were told the bill had been paid in full by another anonymous patron. I was so grateful. Because of this kind act I make it a practice to do this as often as I can for someone else. |
| I took photos of an extern working with us while they were doing a complicated task and sent to them for their final report. I received kudos and appreciation from a previous supervisor all the time for my hard work and taking on challenging tasks. It made me so much happier and so glad to be working for them. My current supervisor helped me out on a days when my co-worker was out sick, shuttling work items during a busy time and helped us come up with a more efficient process when we got flooded with walk-in customers. I brought flowers from my garden to put in our front office before I left for time off. I gave a co-worker congrats on a job well-done where they showed initiative to create a tool that helps us be more efficient. |
| I just wanted to say this act wasn’t a big deal to me, however , apparently it made someone else’s day and made me smile. I work a half shift on Fridays (5:30am-9:30am) at the HSB Building. As I was leaving one Friday morning, walking to my car in the yellow lot, I saw a lady driving around looking for a place to park. As I arrived at my car, we saw each other. She looked very frustrated as there were no spots available. I approached her and asked if she would give me just a minute that she could have my parking spot and also my parking pass I paid for the day. She was so happy. She thanked me and was excited that the spot was next to the building and it was paid for. She told me “you just made my day, and it’s not even 10:00 am. Thank You” I just smiled and wished her a great weekend. It was nice to see someone so happy on their way to work. |
| My manager Debby Larsen got approval for our whole team to learn ASL. We have someone on our team who is deaf… There has been such a change in her! She was isolated before but now I can see her signing with people on our team in passing, all the time! Even for those of us taking the ASL classes, learning something new together has been a great team building exercise. We’ve become much closer as a group. |
| Recently, I woke up and nothing seemed to be going right. I stopped for a coffee, and started a pay-it-forward, by paying for the coffee for the person behind me. I figured putting some good energy into the world would help me respond better to the challenges I was facing, and my day got better J |
| I received a random act of kindness when I was in the drive-thru for lunch. The car in front of me paid for my lunch, it was so unexpected and really set the tone for the rest of my day. |
| I make sure to hold the elevator door for who was in close proximity. It only takes a few seconds to wait just a little longer and you are also making someone’s day for considering their presence. |
| I recently had an opportunity for a vacation, out of town, with just adults. My coworker immediately stepped up to volunteer to take care of my under age daughter, along with ferrying her between school, club and ballet. I would not have been able to take the trip if not for her stepping up. She even did our laundry while I was away! Talk about kindness. |
| I hugged an employee who had a family member pass away. |
| I try every day to take time to say hello and get to know people. This morning I asked again about a coworkers son who is a senior in high school this year and asked how he was doing. |
| Bought coffee for a car in back of me just because |
| We had a fire drill this morning and I held the door open for everyone. I smiled extra big at each person exiting the building. |
| I received the attached unexpected kudos from a coworker on her last day. It was so kind and made me feel so appreciated. I am so happy you are doing something like this, focusing on the power of positivity. |
| On morning runs, I throw newspapers up to the front door, that are lying on driveway or sidewalk. |
| My partner and I went to the movies the other night. We were paying and it came up in our conversation jokingly that he didn’t mention my senior discount. The teller overheard and said she could change it, we said no it was ok… however, she insisted it wouldn’t be a problem. She went ahead and changed it, as she handed us our tickets she said I gave you both the discount. This was a very kind thing for her to do especially when there were people standing in line behind us. It was unexpected and very much appreciated! |
| The first thing that happened to me is I received this marvelous thank you card from a camper (I work for state parks), thanking me and the rest of the staff for sending them a blanket that they had left behind. It was filled with compliments and positive comments about our regular job duties, but it was such a great experience to have someone acknowledge our work! Second was a voicemail I left yesterday to a potential camper that was looking for camp in a very popular yurt that we have. Very few dates were available, but I left her the dates that were current and explained some other info that may have helped her out (again, regular job duties). She called back last night and left the kindest message on the voicemail that I received this morning! She thanked me for the message and was very appreciative for the information. I haven’t received very many “call back thank you’s” before that didn’t have additional questions attached, so that voicemail really made me smile. |
| Recently I found myself out in the country conducting a renewal visit. All of a sudden I realized I was within a few miles of a program that I needed to monitor. Of course I didn’t have any of the necessary forms with me, no pre-visit or training log. I messaged a co-worker and asked if she could just send me a copy of the training log. She did everything, set up the visit, sent me the pre-visit report and the training log. I was able to be successful in my job because of her support. |
| Recently, a newer Agency nurse who has been working with me, noticed I was having some issues with pain in my legs/feet at the end of my working day. She told me she had recently bought some compression socks for nurses, and a few pair were too small for her. She brought me 5 pairs of new compression socks, and gave them to me. I appreciated it so much and am wearing them now. They work! I am now trying to think of ways to repay her act of kindness! |
| As a new employee there have been many stressful days, wondering if I am doing the right thing. I feel it is so important to be positive and encourage those around us however being brand new it has taken nearly all of my energy and focus to learn the very long list of new tasks. The AS1 that has been training me trusted me to be on my own after only 2 weeks, it was only for one day but I was so worried that I would make a pile of mistakes and only make the day more challenging for those around me. When I got to work that morning there was a note with the simple message “Have a GREAT day”. Simple enough but it really changed the way I faced the day. I still have it taped to my monitor, to remind me every day to have a great day. I have made a conscious effort to not let any one small thing ruin the entire day but to do what I can and be a positive influence on my coworkers the public that we serve. One little post it note has had a big impact on me. |
| Random act of kindness by coworker: He brought me Starbucks coffee to start the day! |
| Yesterday was a very busy meeting day for me and as a manager there times like this where I don’t get to lunch. I was going to eat some candy I had at my desk and then off to the next meeting. Instead I had a someone I work with come to me and let me know they were headed to lunch and ask if they could pick something up for me. Because of this person I was able to have a nutritious lunch. |
| Paying for coffee for the person behind me at Starbucks! |
| Being a new employee. Everyone is so helpful and making sure I understand my new position. I have a few go to people on instant messenger and in my local office that are always so eager to help me when I have a question and they all do so with a very positive attitude. It is part of the reason I love this job. |
| I am a single parent with vary active kids one who competes in volleyball year round. Which is very expensive and stressful to pay for it. Recently an anonymous donor donated $250 to my daughters club account to help pay for her fees. This was a huge blessing and reassurance there is still kindness around us. |
| I have a habit of looking for positivity, especially when something traumatic is happening. Last week my brother passed after being in hospice for 9 months. There were so many acts of kindness and positivity that surrounded my sister and I during the four days we sat vigil with him. The most memorable was called “Code Love”. As my brother’s body was being moved through the large care facility and into the hearse the unit called a “code love” over the intercom. All of the staff joined us as we held hands and followed him through the halls. “Nivea” one of his CAN’s whispered to me the whole time saying things like “he was so funny”, “he sure did love basketball – do you?”, “he was finally granted his wish to be free from pain”. We left feeling the love that the staff had for our brother and knowing that they were guiding us through our grief to remember the good. Those moments of positivity will always stay with me. |
| Yesterday, as I was coming into to work, I was carrying a number of things in my hands and a gentleman opened the door for me and held it open for me as I walked through it. In addition, he gave me a smile, and I returned the smile with a Thank You! This just started out my day on a great note. My whole day was very positive, and I believe it was this simple, kind gesture which made my day outstanding. I might add, this was not in a secure area of the building so it was perfectly ok to hold a door open for me. |
| I told Tim what an amazing job he’s doing and how he supports the crew with positivity. |
| I just started working for the state for a little over a month. I tend to be pretty harsh on myself and a perfectionist. I was feeling pretty down on myself about making some mistakes on various things. One of my coworkers told a story about when she first started working and how she made a huge mistake and was so embarrassed. This made me feel so much better. Not that I didn’t make that big of mistakes, but it was nice to know that I was not alone in learning these new things. Being able to relate to my coworkers and hearing their stories helps me relate to them and not feel so much like the “new girl”. |
| When I am buying my weekly groceries, I sometimes get cash back from my debit card and give the checker $10 or $20, and ask them to do me the favor of using it toward the next person’s order, and telling them someone wanted to do something nice for them. Since I am usually out of the store by the time that next shopper gets to the checkstand and hears the good news from the checker, I don’t see most reactions and don’t receive acknowledgement or thanks; that’s okay, because that is not the point anyway. My intention is to do something nice for someone out of the blue; I don’t intend that they know who did it, only that someone they don’t know did something nice for them…just because. It doesn’t even matter to me whether that slightly lowered grocery bill will make a significant difference to their budget; if it does, that’s even better, but if it doesn’t, they’ll still know that someone did something for them for no particular reason, and perhaps that will make their day…and perhaps they might even pay that goodwill forward in some way. The checkers sometimes seem a bit surprised—gladly! |
| On or around payday, when I am treating myself to a coffee at Dutch bros, I like to put $5-10 towards the next customer’s purchase. I also like to give out my full punch cards to friends & coworkers later in the month when money is not so abundant 😃 It’s not much, but I know an unexpectedly free or reduced price coffee in the morning puts a smile on my face, and that’s what I try to do for others! |
| I recently received an email from my manager letting me know how much he appreciates me and how my hard work contributes to his success. It was a nice surprise and I thanked him. My act of kindness – a group of us moved to a new office location. I brought in an electric tea kettle and Brita water pitcher to share with everyone – they were all so thankful and appreciative. |
| Recently, I was in a pizza restaurant with my family. I saw an elderly woman who appeared to be disheveled and possibly homeless come into the restaurant. She went to the back of the restaurant and just sat looking out the window. I remembered seeing her walking along South Commercial earlier that day and thought she sure looked tired and I felt worried for her due to the weather conditions so I was glad to see her out of the elements. As I ate my pizza with my family, I noticed a few customer gawking at her and whispering and one went up to talk to the cashier about her, pointing at her. I got up and walked over to her and asked her if she was hungry, she politely said yes, so I asked her what she would like to eat, she replied “if you have any scraps that would be appreciated”. I explained that she needed a real meal and I walked her to the line and we ordered her a personal pizza, a salad and a beverage. As I paid for it I told the cashier that I hoped their kindness and generosity would be shown by giving my new friend the same courtesy they would with any guest to their restaurant. He smiled and agreed that this was the case. I made sure she had her receipt and waited till she was served before I left. As I left I looked back and saw “Sonia” my new friend smiling and enjoying her pizza. She waved and I did too. |
| 1) They both love to laugh and have a great sense of humor. They try to bring that into the workspace and encourage others to do the same. 2) They are both very kind and compassionate towards their staff. Recently I had to take some time to care for my kiddo. They are always incredibly supportive of keeping priorities right sized and putting family first. That positive reinforcement of that concept makes them both people I enjoy working for and strive to make sure I do my best. It increases my motivation |
| Recently my family was able to order 2 small live Christmas trees that we will be donating to our local Salvation Army to give to families who won’t be able to have one for Christmas this year. |
| Pete Parsons comes to mind when I think of the above topics. Whenever someone has a birthday or some sort of good news to share, he does a “dance” for the person’s good fortune. Each dance, i.e. the happy birthday dance looks like all the others. If you remember Linus from Charlie Brown shuffling back and forth from left to right with minimal movement but still with rhythm, that would be Pete’s dance for you. We all laugh and sometimes join in on the dance too. It makes you feel good to receive the extra effort dance and relaxes the office to say it’s ok to have fun at work while encouraging and celebrating each other. |
| I recently moved to splitting my time at Central office in Salem (2 days wk) and also a parole office in Wasco county (3 days wk). My co-worker and I are working through the changes of how we do our work since I’m physically located at another location 3 days a week. When I came to the office yesterday morning I surprised her with a new limited edition coffee she has been wanting to try but hasn’t been able to get one. I did this as a thank you for being willing to try this new working environment with me. I also make sure that every morning that I am at the Wasco location that I greet my team with a good morning message and wishing them a wonderful productive day and thanking them for their willingness to support me in my new location and how our normal job practices have been done. |
| As a new employee, I have often felt a little lost or unsure about the work I am completing. While I feel supported by my supervisor and coworkers, sometimes my decisions leave me with feelings of uneasiness. Approximately two weeks ago, I was asked to give a large presentation on a subject I was not very familiar with, and was pretty nervous. Following my presentation, I had a coworker come by my workstation to give me very positive feedback and support on the task. It was out of the way for the individual to come across the office, and make the extra effort to stop by to express their support. While simple kudus can be commonplace, I felt that he went well out of his way to make time to provide positive and reinforcing feedback. The interaction absolutely brightened my day, and made me feel even more a member of a team, and less of the “newbie”. |
| Hi, our team Case Intake at Division of Child Support, Department of Justice welcomes new employees with a clean desk, some supplies and a vase with a big bright cheery tissue paper flower along with a fun welcome sign that our team has signed. I always make a point to get to know new staff to our team and make them feel welcomed also. |
| One thing I love to do is hide “kindness matters” rocks around my agency and outside our building. I like to think of the smile it brings to people that find them. My hope is that they re-hide the rocks for others to find. |
| This act of kindness just makes people feel good. I’m always the guy to pick up loose change that I find on the ground, even pennies. Ever heard of a penny being found face up being considered good luck? I was walking with a co-worker one day who looked down and said “Oh, a penny” I saw him reach for it, pick it up, turn it over and put it back. I asked him why he didn’t keep it. He explained that it wasn’t heads up, so it wasn’t good luck. He further explained that he turned it over to the heads side so that the next person to find it would get the joy of a good luck heads up penny! I loved this idea and have been doing it ever since. I explained how it worked to my young daughter, and now she does this too. It makes me smile when I turn a penny over and put it back. It’s such a small simple thing that can be done to put a quick smile on someone’s face. |
| Recently, a coworker (Carla Blaker) bought a couple of new pairs of boots. When she wore the one pair to the office, she said that she couldn’t wear them because they made her back hurt. She knew that I thought they were cute, and she asked if I wanted them. I said that I couldn’t afford to pay her for them, and she told me that she didn’t want any money. She just wanted them to go to someone who would use them. In addition to that, she brought in the other pair (which also made her back hurt) and insisted I take that pair also. |
| We huddle every day for 15 minutes in the morning. Each day we allow employee’s to share anything positive and uplifting. This allows each employee 1 to 2 minutes to share if they chose. The uplifting moments they share help improve moral and starts the day on a positive note. The positivity extends through work day. This helps us be in the correct mindset to serve our fellow Oregonians. |
| A birthday is not just another day. It is when someone enters this world and somehow in some way makes an impact on others. Well here in our district office, I like to make a person having a birthday or the day they came into this world just a little special, to celebrate the person. I either take them to the store or a favorite café where they make amazing deserts and let them pick what they love to eat. It could be a cake, pie, cookies, fruit, sandwich, ice cream, chips and dip or anything else they love. It is their choice. Everyone in the office gets to share in the consumption of their treat as most employees usually end up sharing. This makes everyone happy. Win, Win!! This is just a way I can let them know they are an important part of our team. |
| As a new DHS employee (hired in July) who is also new to the open work environment, I was unsure how it would go with cubicles all around me when tense situations arose with high conflict phone calls. Pretty quickly, I noticed some of the opportunities. Positive moments I’ve experienced range from colleagues offering insight to solve challenging situations and policy questions, to unexpected praise for handling high conflict phone calls and angry callers with calm & respect, to the morning greetings shared as cubicle neighbors arrive and brainstorming ways to increase the effectiveness of the work we do. It is a privilege to serve this great state with committed colleagues. Thanks for the opportunity to share these reflections. |
| Bringing my co-worker her favorite chocolate muffin from Ike Box. My co-worker bringing me a scone from Great Harvest.Sending an encouraging text to my co-worker. |
| Recently there was a time in a store when someone couldn’t pay for an item. I think it was pasta sauce, and she was a little short. I remembered the “pay it forward” concept. I was behind her in line and offered to pay the balance on her bill. She looked like she wanted to cry after I offered to, incredulous that someone would do that for her. I got chills through my body at that moment, and then I found myself choking back tears. I don’t know, it really was a small thing to me, like a few dollars, but it made that person’s day. I thought, “maybe she promised her kids spaghetti dinner?” I don’t know…. |
| Recently, while at work, I was struggling. Just was a day and probably had more to do with my personal life than work, to be honest, but I was silently crying during a meeting. Afterwards, my coworker went to Starbucks for a coffee for her and saw that they have my favorite peppermint hot cocoa back for the holidays. She brought it back and left it on my desk with just a note that said. I care about you. I can’t tell you how much that act meant to me that day and frankly, all week. I just needed someone to reach out and say that they saw me and cared about me. I never told her what was going on or asked her to listen (although I know she would have if I had asked) but that one act improved my life exponentially for days and still brings me a warm feeling when thinking about it 😊 |
| Last week I paid for someone’s groceries when her card wasn’t working! |
| As the payroll manager of State Police, I let my 3 employees leave a little early, on Friday before Veterans Day. I held down the office. |
| I am new to the state government and it was a new world to me. A co-worker, Mike Odenthal, has consistently helped me to adjust by taking time to check in. He helps give real world examples and helps to mold my former life in the industry into my new regulatory role. Just the simple dropping by the cubicle to chat has really made a difference to me. |
| I recently received an card from my center administrator, section manager and program manager thanking me for my work in planning and implementing a division level project related to health equity. This act of kindness made me feel seen and valued! |
| In my workgroup (Support Services) at the Dept of State Lands, we like to support & celebrate each other for birthdays. Yesterday, we surprised one of our coworkers with a 30th birthday celebration. She was very surprised and thrilled with it! Also, we have a baking bandit amongst us. Yesterday, they left fresh homemade blueberry scones in the break room. Today, it was homemade no bake cookies! |
| Random Act of Kindness: Recently, I brought a person who is experience homelessness outside of our Eugene Office a bowl of soup. It was really cold and seemed like a great way to make is day – and it worked! His face it up in surprise and delight! |
| Recently, I accidentally dropped my employee badge in a Fred Meyer parking lot. As it turns out, a person from a completely different agency saw the badge, picked it up, and got in touch with me to let me know she’d found it. She didn’t even know me, but she recognized the badge and took the time to get in touch so I could get it back. It was very nice of her, and I was very grateful! |
| Monday my family came home to find our leaves in a tidy pile. Our next door neighbor has a leaf blower and took it upon himself to help gather up our leaves since he was already doing his. |
| A couple months ago my team all conspired and decided to throw me a surprise bridal shower. They all spent weeks planning, making props, and cooking yummy treats to share on the day. The day of, I walked in to work and found that my cube was decorated to high heaven. We were supposed to have a food day that day but I thought it was to celebrate a different coworker. They all popped out and surprised me with the flyer for my very own bridal shower! It was so sweet of them to think of me, and spend all that time getting things together, and I couldn’t believe they pulled one over on me! It made me feel so special and supported…it made me feel like I was really one of the team. They truly went above and beyond to help celebrate and distract me from what (in the middle of it all) was a really stressful time in my life. It helped me more than they probably know. |
| Cherie Botta is an AS 1 in the SOR unit and at her own expense and time acknowledges everyone’s birthdays in our unit. This entails Cherie going to the store and buying decorations, lots of balloons, treats for everyone and a special treat for the birthday person. People don’t realize how much money it costs to do what she is doing and as well coming into work on her own time to decorate the birthday person’s cubicle. Her actions really adds to the positive reactions and not just from the birthday person but the unit as a whole! |
| I receive kindness every single day from my coworkers. Sometimes its by offering me a ride home. Other times it has been things like feeding me, helping me with a project that they don’t need to help me with, or even telling me about their families (something that I love to hear about). I have been VERY lucky to work with these people. Kindness is one of those gifts that it takes no time to give, but the benefit is profound. |
| I received on my desk this morning a note saying I am loved. No signature. Just made a great start to my day! |
| I had recently been going through some hard changes in my home life, struggling to keep healthy close ties with my daughter and her family. Often times coming into work reeling from the struggles, but I continued and even put myself through some training to assist me financially in the future. I went through two months of this training which meant that I would only get two to four hours of sleep each night. Once my training was complete, all I could think was, finally, I can sleep. But, Mr. Carroll insisted that I should feel good for setting a goal and accomplishing it against incredible odds. That I should be proud of myself for doing this. He was supportive and encouraging throughout everything and for this act of kindness I am truly thankful. |
| Kindness – My husband had to have some fasting blood work drawn. He left to the lab and we agreed to meet and share breakfast on my way to work at a local restaurant. After 35 years of marriage we still value having meals together (that’s kindness that has lasted; we don’t take each other for granted and still act like we are dating). He arrived at the restaurant first and placed our order. The waitress brought his food out and said she’d bring mine when I arrived so it would still be hot. She was very attentive and asked how my coffee was and if everything was hot enough. Both my husband and the waitress were so kind and thoughtful it started my day off with joy! |
| I recently received a verbal act of kindness from my co-worker Norma Rodriguez-Ward telling me I am doing a good job and she appreciates working with me. |
| Just last week during the busiest time of the month I decided to take it upon myself and do something nice for one of our BEW’s. Our office has been short staffed since I can remember our BEWS do so much for our clients and are kept busy the majority of the time with back to back intakes. On my way to work I stopped by my local Dutch Bro’s I ordered my usual and thought about the BEW that was #1 on the board the day before. I decided to order an extra coffee something “warm and sweet” I said to the barista. I felt warm and sweet myself with the thought of making someone’s morning extra ordinary by arriving to work with a warm drink to start their day. I work hard to share the feeling of inclusiveness at work I love the feeling of connection and belonging. It’s important for me to make everyone feel a part of and when you give you definitely feel that. Thank you for the opportunity to share my power of positivity. |
| Please don’t use my name, but one of my favorite things to do when someone is out sick for an extended period of time is to hang a large sheet of paper up with a caption like: We Miss You! Here’s Why: What We Love/Like/Admire about____________: Or encouraging play like posting a funny picture for people to caption or create a Mad Lib or story for people to add to 2 words at a time. We do that a lot in my section. |
| I have been on a rotation for the past year. When I returned to my previous position this morning, my office was in better shape than I left it. The lead HSA, MaiVan Rada, took the time to set it up with all the tools I would need for a smooth transition back, even down to extra garbage bags for my convenience. I can never find the extra bags! Her attention to detail and thoughtfulness is much appreciated. |
| I recently helped facilitate a team off-site training day. We spent months putting together speakers, training, lunch and activities.We knew our team was happy after getting the results from our after-event survey. For me, working on this Off-Site Training Day, left me feeling very exposed. My “work” was on display for the entire team to critique. The kindness came when our Administrator forwarded the survey results to our Division CFO. Both these execs took the time to compliment the planning team on the event. |
| I was at the Starbucks next to my office ordering coffee and a bagel on my break two weeks ago. When I went to pay, the employee said “No charge, you don’t look like your normal happy self. This one is one me.” They had paid for my order themselves. I had been having a tough time trying to balance a spreadsheet all morning. It made my whole week. |
| The kindness that I give to my love one is give them a good bye kiss before I go to work. The greatest kindness to all, my co-worker, my customers are respect them. Treat them and I prefer other treat me. Give them a smile, help customer when they ask for help. Help them to find the location to go to job interview, help customer with an online application, help customer to complete Home Forward waiting list application, help customer to revise and format resume. Sharing cookies, snack and fruit to my co-worker, comfort my co-worker because she just lost her love one. Saying nice things to co-worker. Kindness I received from my love one is given me a thoughtful gift for my BD. Kindness I received from the stranger is he open the door when he and I approach to the door at shopping mall. Kindness I receive from my customer is their thankful, smile and treat me with respect. Kindness I receive from my co-worker is they saying nice things to me. |
| I stopped at the Starbuck inside Fred Meyer in Newberg on a Saturday morning. There was a fairly long line. As the line was moving, I heard the woman at the counter tell the server that she wanted to pay for the coffee for the woman behind her. The woman behind her was excited and happy and turned to the next person and said she would pay for their coffee. Not only was this act of kindness just a nice way to put a smile on peoples’ faces, but it started conversations between strangers that made the wait in line seem much shorter. |
| I allowed a person to go in front of me at a grocery store check out line. |
| I will by someone’s coffee that is behind me or the best was when I was at the movie theater and bought the father with 2 little children a large family pack full of goodies. It make my heart smile to just be kind!! We need more of this in our world! I was amazed the other day when I was in my pets vet office, and the lady behind me paid for my animals food. I have practiced acts of kindness for YEARS. That was the 1st time that I received anything like that back. I never ever expect anything in return ,because I just love to show kindness. It was just such an awesome feeling to be the receiver! |
| My coworker Dawn Horn surprised me with some homemade (sliced, smoked, seasoned) bacon, just for being a good coworker and helping out. It is so yummy! She is the best! |
| I have a coworker that has been struggling financially. She also has been diagnosed with some rare medical issues that have caused her to gain weight. I have recently lost some weight, so decided to clean out my entire closet and bring in two bags of clothes for her to go through and donate whatever she didn’t want. She got emotional as she really needed help with this, but didn’t have the finances to do so. It felt good helping with something that I no longer had a use for but would totally help someone else. |
| We have someone in our department (Kandi Storms) who organizes and decorates our offices/cubes for the current season. She and her helpers come in over the weekend, when the season changes, and update our decorations to keep our workspaces fun and festive. It always brightens our day and makes us all feel special. |
| One of our accounting people was leaving early the following day and wouldn’t have any coverage for anything we needed from her team. She asked that we get things to her by a certain time. I didn’t know for sure if I was going to have anything, but I committed to 1) having the items to her prior to that deadline, OR 2) communicate that I didn’t have anything for her prior to the deadline. She thanked me and went about her day. One of my co-workers overheard our interaction and said to me, “I love the communication going on in that interaction.” I didn’t really understand what he meant and asked what he meant. He said, “I really like that you offered to follow up with her whether you had something or not. I just appreciate the clarity of your intent to communicate with her.” That little piece of feedback was such a gift, and I’m so thankful he took a few moments to provide me with that positive reinforcement! |
| A friend recently turned 60 and I bought her a bright cherry plant for her birthday. Also held a door for someone with a toddler and a stroller |
| I recently received an email from a coworker that was complimenting me on an interaction they observed with an inmate here at the intake center. It was unexpected and really brightened my day 😊 |
| For 13 years, I’ve had candy dishes (yes, more than one ~ sometimes as many as four at one time) on my desk as well as my “Snack Drawer” ~ loaded with a variety of chocolates, hard candies, vintage candy, pastries, cookies, etc. Always looking for fun new treats to offer my team. My team raiding my Snack Drawer and gathering around the candy dish(es) has been a source of stress relief, debriefing, and camaraderie in general but especially when our Unit is “high” and dealing with difficult & violent situations. |
| Planted a flower in our entryway garden. It makes me smile when I see it. Hopefully it will cause others to smile and be kind. |
| Recently I was working in my cube when a co-worker stopped by and handed me a large piece of Velcro. I gave him a quizzical look and he indicated that it was for my nametag, so I could hang it on the outside of my cube without using a clip. This encounter shocked me and I’m still thinking about it weeks later. The fact that he saw my nametag, thought of a way to make an improvement, and took his time and energy to bring me something almost brought tears to my eyes. The whole thing made me feel valued and really at home at work. I’ve been trying to think of ways to pass it on ever since. |
| My random act of kindness was something I witnessed yesterday. During our bake sale benefitting Toys for Tots, a manager purchased treats for his entire floor! It was so great to see how excited they all were. It really helped out a great cause and surely energized all of his staff. What a treat! |
| I have a perfect Random Act of Kindness that happened the week following Halloween. There was plenty of leftover Halloween candy in the office, and I was definitely eating my share! But my very favorite candy is Hershey’s plain chocolate. Alas, there wasn’t any leftover Hershey’s to be found. One day I came back to my desk after a meeting. Lo & Behold, there was a pile of Hershey’s mini candy bars on my desk. I’m talking at least 10 or more! I literally squealed with delight. Later I found out that my co-worker Teresa Lewis found out that I loved that candy. She said she had leftover candy and couldn’t stop eating it (like me) so she decided to both of us a favor. J That little act of kindness made me so happy. |
| Tana Libby, Region 4 STIP Coordinator, exudes positivity! Her enthusiasm for life is palpable and when she’s out of the office for training or vacation, we miss her! She goes out of her way to say ‘hi’ to her coworkers and makes everyone she talks to feel like they are valued. I recently returned from a day off to this happy note from her – I keep it posted at my desk and smile every time I look up at it. A small act of kindness…does indeed make a big difference! |
| Our Managers gives hands out a bright pink super stars randomly and my co-workers and I gives each other a path on the back in a daily basis. |
| A couple of months ago, I was having a really bad day at work, and a co-worker noticed. I had gone home completed frustrated and angry as the issues of that day were unresolved. When I arrived back to work the following morning, someone had left a gift for me on my desk (see the attached picture). There was no note, there wasn’t anything written or signed, no card, and I had absolutely no idea who had left it on my desk. It took me two days to find out, and when I did, I was surprised. I had found out that there are people I work with who believe I am a good person to work with, that I have value and am very knowledgeable about what I do, that they truly enjoy working with me. It was humbling. I found out that it was a new employee on a job rotation who was helping us in our section. He has since successfully interviewed and hired to become our permanent assistant, and I’m grateful for the kindness he shows every day. His laugh and the sparkle in his eyes truly makes it a joy to have him working with us. |
| Examples (1) As I was going out for coffee, I also purchased one for my coworker in the next cube as an unexpected surprise. (2) I’ve submitted anonymous gift cards (usually $5-$10) into coworkers mailboxes for acts of kindness toward me or others with a note of thanks and encouragement. |
| Lawrence Knotts, aka Lonnie, (MHRA) is one of the kindest people I’ve ever met. He works for a different agency in my building and each and every time I see or talk with him, he is always so positive. He uplifts those around him, makes them laugh or smile or just feel better. Lonnie is funny, very upbeat, and he always brightens my day. |
| As a manager/leader I can often be overwhelmed by the many tasks and deadlines which I worry impacts my ability to give sufficient time and attention to my staff, both as a team and individually, to support them. My worry evaporated recently when I unexpectedly received a card and gift on Boss’s Day. The card contained their expressions of gratitude and support. It reminded me that often in our work it is the small things we do which can have the greatest impact. This card is posted on my cube wall to remind me of this each day. |
| I am currently dealing with issues with my aging mother who has gone downhill rapidly in the last week. Both of my managers and the engagement specialist have been very kind and told me that if I need to take time off to please do so. Also, a friend and former co-worker who works at another branch offered to help out with anything that I needed even as she is dealing with her own husband who recently injured himself when he fell off their roof. I really appreciate this support from people. It is good to know that others care about you when you are dealing with a personal issue such as this. |
| While at the doctor’s office last week, a woman asked me for a ride to the nearest max station.I could tell she was not feeling well and had just been released from care. I had things to do myself, but I felt it was important to get her to the max safely. |
| We had a meeting with lots of passionate opinions regarding the topic at hand. We had a new employee at the meeting whose role is to help guide our policy decisions. She did a great job at helping us focus on the issue, not placing blame and staying positive. After the meeting, I sent her an email (ccing her boss) letting her know what a fantastic job she did especially considering she was new to the team and in the middle of some passionate debates. |
| I have a co-worker named Kimberly Lanning that has helped me gain confidence in applying to be a lead and just in general. Now I get the opportunity to be a lead. She is always there to let me know that I am smart and to trust myself. |
| Yesterday as I came back into the front doors of the building after taking my walking break, I came upon a mother pushing two strollers with babies who appeared to be twins. Her hands were full. She was coaching her daughter, who appeared to be between four and five years of age, to open the door for her. I held open the first door for her daughter, and the mother was able to enter the vestibule between the two sets of doors. Another person about to enter the building saw the mother with two strollers and held open the doors leading directly outside. The mother was able to safely exit with all three of her daughters. And the older daughter learned how to hold the door open for her mother, too, as she helped open doors. It was a sweet and beautiful moment. |
| Gave kindness: I gave a pair of shoes to a friend Recipient of kindness: I had scraped together money to buy diapers and milk and when I got home, there was a $100 “Benny bill” in the box of diapers |
| 1. A co-worker asking about my difficult evening the night previously 2. A co-worker giving me candy when I’m needing a chocolate fix 3. Co-workers sharing lunch and snacks with me during various times |
| Attached you will find an email that I emailed out to my SSP district today. I was hoping to inspire some positivity and kindness with a reminder and an amazing quote by Mark Twain (see attached). |
| My name is Alex and I am fairly new to the organization. Elisa Rodriguez was asked by Scott Nine to prepare my desk and other items for my arrival. Elisa did prepare my desk and filed the necessary forms, but she showed kindness even though she didn’t know me. She purchased a small succulent plant to place at my desk as a welcome present and arranged all of my work supplies in a thoughtful manner. She even met me outside on my first day and invited me to lunch with her. I feel truly thankful to have a colleague who has gone out of her way to make me feel so supported and welcome even before she knew who I was. I am so happy I made this career move to work with so many caring and kind individuals! |
| A random act of kindness that I recently received was a thank you note from one of my co-workers for being a great work buddy. Random acts of kindness that I try incorporate in my daily life whether at home, at work, or running everyday errands is to smile and greet people with an enthusiastic hello! |
| I recently (February) became a manager in my office. One of the employees on my team noticed I had seemed stressed. She made me a beautiful homemade card, that she had clearly spent significant time and thought on. The outside said “Happy Fall” and in the inside it said “Fall, a season that teaches us that change can be beautiful” It was a wonderful gift to receive such support from her. |
| We have an FSU tech in our region named Travis Lowe. Travis works tirelessly to help everyone with their individual computer related needs. Even though his job does not actually require him to make rounds, every morning he comes to each person’s desk to make sure they are ready to go. He prevents us having to stress about our devices and facilitates success with his kind smile and helpful attitude. His initial kindness each day sets in motion exponentially more acts of kindness throughout our region. |
| Sometimes I randomly make breakfast or bring home baked goods for my co-workers just to brighten their day. Its amazing how food can make people feel good 😊😊 |
| A recent random act of kindness me, and my team, provided was for a job seeker that had come in for the welcome process. He had recently moved to the area, and needed assistance finding work. I assisted the job seeker and led them through the usual local community resources. The customer was not on SNAP benefits, but I spent a fair bit of time making sure to fully explain the STEP Support Services program and how we could assist him in many ways to conduct an efficient job search. I suggested the job seeker go to DHS and apply for SNAP benefits, and then return to us the next day to talk about their options with the STEP Support Services program. It took a little longer than expected to get the SNAP banner to show up in iMatchSkills, but the job seeker kept coming in and meeting with staff to talk about his situation, and to see if the SNAP banner had showed up. Eventually, once the banner had appeared, we set him up in the STEP program with an Opportunity Plan, which he was very thankful for, as it gave him a few clear goals to focus on, and we provided him with a bus pass to aid in transportation to/from work search activities. The following week we talked about helping him obtain some job search clothing to help his confidence level when going out to apply for work. However, he ended up obtaining employment before we were able to get him the job search clothing, and we ended up switching the assistance to work clothing and boots for his new job. We also helped him obtain his drivers license, he now has a vehicle, and an even better job, which he enjoys much more. The last time we spoke, he was incredibly thankful for that initial conversation, because he had no idea about the STEP Support Services program, and attributed the assistance we provided to his success in getting back to work. |
| Last week I had a coworker come over to me out of the blue who told me to add how detail oriented I am to my resume. He is in the same area but we do not work directly together. I told him thank you, and how I really needed to hear that J |
| Last week, I had a coworker who wasn’t feeling well at the office, but was hoping to save Sick Leave hours in the case of a more serious condition. After checking with her about what she thought might be helpful, I drove to the pharmacy on my first break and picked up some comforting items for her. Later in the week, she returned the favor by generously buying me my favorite latte. 😊 |
| I had the opportunity to help out a co-worker who is a single, grandmother raising her granddaughter. She was beside herself and in tears because of some financial obligations she couldn’t meet. I consulted with my husband & offered the coworker some $$ so she could focus on taking good care of her granddaughter. It felt so good to bless them and ease that burden. |
| 1st: a co-worker of mine noticed a post I shared on Face-book about a Dual unclaimed Veteran graveside service that was held in Happy Valley Oregon. I noticed he shared it immediately and asked that if anyone could make it to please do so. Matthew Shahat took off work yesterday to attend the service of a fellow unclaimed Veteran out of town , it really moved me. He also serves on the Veterans Employee Resource Group as well. Matt is always willing to help out. 2. Julia Meekins has offered to teach me to sew. We started crafting on our lunches once a week because she knew I wanted to make a stocking from my sons military ABU’s. Julie is another that I constantly see helping her fellow coworkers out and striving to be positive. 3rd. Stacie Culver Recently got me a t-shirt just because. I think Stacie is a prime example of choosing positivity. We could focus on things that are grim, but she’s always looking at the silver lining of things, she’s the first to check in on someone. She lets people know she’s thinking of them through their difficult hardships. |
| This morning I walked to the local coffee shop with a coworker. My plan was to treat her to a cup of coffee—however, she surprised me and paid for mine. What a special treat. And it was nice to get to visit on the way back to the office. Made my day! |
| Our leadworker, Miguel Mendez, is a true example and leader of what kindness and positivity means. Miguel genuinely cares about teamwork and our work environment. Not only does he make himself available and supports us in our jobs, he randomly blesses us with food and treats. Just last Friday, November 8th, he bought lunch (pizza, chicken & jojo’s) for our whole office, and there was no special occasion but “just because”. I was so impressed. This is such a motivation for me because I am a foodie. This is only a small example of the many times Miguel does these “random acts of kindness”. He’ll bring cupcakes, cookies, or cream puffs for birthdays and other celebrations on top of the “random just because” treats. Miguel’s leadership example shows me he cares about our well being and success and not just himself. |
| In our office sometimes when the first person goes out to warm up a state care they will scrape the windows and/or remove snow off other cars while theirs is warming up to make it easier for the next person coming out. |
| A couple of my co-workers walk to pick up lunch weekly and were kind enough to also pick up lunch for me and bring it back to me. They didn’t have to do this nor cover the cost until they brought it to me. It was an act of kindness that made me really appreciate my team even more and feel like I also need to return the favor to another. 🙂 |
| My example of kindness is from my coworkers. I’m having surgery in less than two weeks and thanks to my coworkers my recovery time will be completely paid. I never expected to receive so many hours of donated leave and I am so appreciative. My husband and I also recently went through our closets and gathered some coats, sweater, socks, pants, scarves, etc. and brought what we didn’t need, along with some snacks, into downtown Portland on a cold night and gave them to people in need. It was so nice to see it all go to people who needed it the most J |
| Our lead team gives random positivity cards to encourage our team. We haven’t been discovered yet, so don’t let the cat out of the bag! |
| Yesterday I had a wonderful lady on the phone trying to fill out an online application for OHP medical but she was running into issues. We spent about an hour on the phone getting her the access she wanted so that she could apply. She had many questions about how OHP worked and her concerns about her care and what OHP actually provides, as she has been diagnosed with a very rare cancer. She has a young child that she is worried about for when she is unable to care for the child and had no idea about where to turn for help for things beyond just medical insurance. She was very thankful for all of the help I offered and the many resources I was able to share with her so that she could apply for the help and make contact with other resources and support. She said that she wasn’t raised to ask for hand outs and was actually scared to ask for help. She didn’t want to feel like she was being judged by those that she talked to as she had heard that many people have had issues with the state. She was so very thankful and surprised about the help and resources I was able to provide her with and she was super impressed with the care and compassion I was able to extend to her. She said that her entire view of asking for help from the state has changed, and she hopes that if she needs to ask for help again that all of the people she comes into contact with here at the state will make her feel supported like she did during this call. |
| I recently had a friend’s mother in law who allowed a group of us to use her river home at the coast for a girl’s getaway (free of charge). It is a very nice home and was so fun and relaxing for us. I sent her a thank you note to let her know how much I appreciated her and her husband’s kindness. |
| My act of kindness that I have done was I had a participant who was placing mental health issues and wanting us to issue an EBT card for him since he lost it and stating that he wanted kill others and him. I was seeing that one of my co-worker was having difficulty helping the participant at her desk. I came around from the back to where he was and sat next to him to see what the concern was. He was having mental health issues and was being disruptive. I offered to take him in a room and have a more one on one discussion with him. He agreed to go in the back. I had two managers in the hallway to watch over just in case if he displayed any violence. He had mentioned that he wanted to kill himself and others. They did not leave my side until it was all done. I was being patient with him and trying to help with his concerns. We called mental health advocate over a personal phone and wanted us to call the police to escort him to where they were so they can do a full evaluation. He had mentioned that he was hungry and one of my manager went to the store to get him some food to snack on since I could not leave his side. I communicated to the participant what was going to happen and we were going to do as far as calling the police. We did issue an EBT card and I sat with him and he thought people were talking about him and looking at his pin number that he was selecting. In my calm voice I told him that no one is looking and offered to stand up to guard from anyone looking when he was selecting a pin number. I escorted him out in the lobby w/the police so he did not feel like he was alone and since I had built trust with him from the beginning. |
| I just started commuting by bike 1.5 days ago. After my first day, I was gifted a high visibility vest; as it is dark when I head out in the morning. The person is an OSHA employee – so not at my work site. |
| Often when I go to our office’s central copy machine to retrieve a document, there is already one or more documents there that haven’t yet been picked up. I often hand deliver them as an act of kindness. The recipients sometimes have forgotten, or otherwise enjoy this courtesy “courier” service. |
| I dropped off a goodie bag with treats to a friend who was having a rough time just last week. |
| “Have a fabulous day, and try to make it a positive one for yourself & all those around you!” T. Raterman – Our progress isn’t always as rapid as we’d like. It can be wearying and tiering. Sometimes it’s moment by moment. Through it, try to think of things you are grateful for. |
| I had a recent experience with this! My boss Debbie Amsberry sent me an unexpected email on Oct 24, 2019: “Mona, I know we talked about this but I really just wanted you to know how much I appreciate the work you do. Thank you!” It made my week and I was smiling for a while after I got this email! She is really good in general on showing her employees appreciation. It definitely makes a difference. |
| A colleague and I attended a stakeholder meeting last night to provide some context as to a new process that was being implemented which had a direct effect on their ability to make purchasing decisions. This change could also potentially affect their revenue. As you can imagine there were strong feelings surrounding the issue. Leading up to the meeting, my co-worker had faced several position or duty related changes of her own and was feeling a bit lost as to her professional purpose. During the meeting, my co-worker did an outstanding job (which was her usual job) deescalating the anxiety and frustrations of the group to a point they were thanking us for helping them gain a better understanding of the issues. After the group understood a bit more about the process change, she had to leave the meeting since it was getting into the later hours of the night. My act of kindness was simply to contact her after the meeting and acknowledge her unique ability to set context, provide rationale, and take people who were at a 9 in terms of frustration down to a 1. In the end, it was important for me to have her know that her gifts are valued. |
| I had to run an errand to Winco to get supplies for my sick little man. He wasn’t even two and was fighting a bad ear infection. I was trying to handle the banshee screams he was emitting, answering the million ”why” questions from my 5 year old, unload the cart, bag the groceries and maintain some sanity. I get up to pay and the dreaded “declined” appears. I immediately panic! I ask them to hold my order, while I rapidly log into my online banking, just to see that indeed, I only have $20 and my supplies are over $60…I look up with tears in my eyes and ask the cashier if I can start returning some of the items. She looks at me and smiles and says, “No need dear, the couple behind has covered your order.” I couldn’t believe it! I’d had the free drinks from Dutch Brothers, but $60+ at a grocery store. I went over and just hugged the couple. They said they remember being there and always wished they had someone to help them out. I still have the receipt 4 years later! I will never forget that one act! I try to always pay it forward for others, just so they know they aren’t alone. |
| I keep a couple of different varieties of blank cards in my desk that I can use as impromptu thank you cards. Yesterday a coworker stopped by to talk about their pending participation on a project. In the course of that conversation they shared some difficulties they’d had working with the group in the past – but that they had worked passed that and felt they were well-positioned to engage with the team. It was a very positive conversation. This morning they came into work to find a simple thank you note on their desk, telling them that I appreciate them, their vulnerability, and the positivity they developed in the face of the challenge – and that I was excited to work with them on both the project and on the team. |
| I have an email subscription to Passiton.com and like to post their PSAs for my colleagues to see and give a daily boost as well as a reminder to myself. |
| I have had the same neighbor for several years and she has always kept busy working at a soup kitchen or working in her yard, including planting a small garden that is located on the side of our house. This past year, she had her second round of chemo, as her cancer returned. I could see that she was not able to plant a garden for the first time in years, so I put in a garden for her and helped keep it weeded and watered. She enjoyed many vegetables for the summer and was able to enjoy her garden once again. |
| About twice a month, I purchase a $10.00 McDonalds gift card and give it to one of the homeless people in front of McDonalds. |
| Always holding the door for a person right behind you, or opening it and waiting for the person to go ahead Smile at people who aren’t, make sure your smile is in your eyes Find a way to be helpful without being asked Before saying or doing anything when upset, stop and think: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? |
| Our branch started “Warming Hearts” which is free warm clothes to anyone in need. We have been doing this for the past two years. It was started by me giving my office blanket to a homeless man who was cold sitting on a bench in front of our building. After conversations with fellow coworkers it turned in to our warming closet. We do fund raisers through out the year and we purchase tarps, hand warmers, ponchos etc. 😊 |
| I attached a picture of two things I have received randomly, recently. We seem to have some “positivity elf’s” in our office! I was so encouraged by both. Hope is my word and sometimes on a hard day, I love looking up and reminding myself – I am of value. |
| While not a recent kindness, I will never forget how supportive my co-workers and management team were when my spouse died in 2011. |
| I had to be out of town for work, and my daughter put some lasagna in the fridge for me for when I get home, so I will not have to cook. |
| A very nice work colleague who I had not met before held the door for me today long before I even climbed the stairs to the doors and just patiently waited for me to climb the stairs and enter. |
| The last act of kindness I preformed was giving up my electronic shopping cart at Fred Meyer for a gentleman waiting for one. I tore several ligaments in my ankle and just got out of a boot after almost 4 months. The elderly man was sitting on a bench by other broken carts waiting for one to be returned. I gave up my cart for him so he could do his shopping. I moved my belongings to a push cart and helped transfer him from the bench to the cart as his O2 take was heavy for him. Its not much but it meant a lot to him. |
| My husband is disabled and lives his life in a wheelchair as a quadriplegic due to a progressive neuro-muscular disease. He has gotten to be very kind and understanding of others who experience life difficulties. He decided that he wanted to do a project to give out bags to the homeless. We went and bought canned chili, Vienna sausages, fruit leather, bottled water, and some other fun foods and snacks and put them together with plastic utensils and a napkin wrapped up with a positive message inside. Whenever we see someone in need of one of his “encouragement sacks”, we hand them out. We always keep several in his mobility van at all times. |
| There are time I like to bring a co-worker or two a cup of coffee from their favorite spot or I will see them in line a buy their lunch. Place a card on their desk just saying how appreciated they are for the good job they do. Or a card with a sweet treat just saying thank you for the happiness you share with others. No signature causer I don’t need to be thanked I just want them to know they are appreciated. |
| I was recently at Safeway getting lunch and I had just check out at the self checkout. There was a young women with her young son getting lunch at the check out next to me. She swiped her card to pay for it and it declined. I could see the panic in her eyes and the look of not wanting to disappoint her son. She was trying to explain to her son that they were going to have to do something else, so I quietly asked her if I could pay for it. She tried to tell me that I didn’t need to but I smiled and said I would really like to pay for it. Her eyes teared up and I swiped my card and finished the transaction. I smiled at her and her son and walked away. It made my heart happy to help her. I know what it is like to be in her shoes and am I thankful that I am in a better place now to be able help others when needed. |
| Well you prompted me to fill out the appreciation slips we were given. I did 3, need more slips! |
| I am a fairly new hire here at the state, and was feeling really discouraged and struggling with self doubt. My lead, Julie Zitzelberger took time to sit with me and listen to what I was struggling with. She sat me down and just related to me, let me feel heard, and told me all the positive things she saw in me and in my work. She made me feel like I was feeling exactly as I should and that even though I wasn’t feeling 100% just yet, I was not alone in that struggle. Everyone goes through it, and she even showed me all the reasons I should feel better about where I am at performance wise. |
| There is a lovely lady in my area and every Easter, Halloween, Christmas, 4th of July – she puts together little bags of goodies for our kids. I have adopted 3 kids and she just started included me in on this. The bags of goodies for the kids are not expensive or extravagant, but the it’s the thought and the kindess |
| Take a friend out to lunch for a break away from work; investing time to personally encourage one another. |
| Last week I was the recipient of a random act of kindness. One of our Audit Mangers neglected to inform me of interviews for an internal positions occurring that day. I made sure we had everything we needed and the interviews went off without a hitch. The Audit manager felt so horrible for springing this on me at the last minute and having me adjust my lunch hour to accommodate the interview word exams which I proctor, that she went to Safeway and bought me a beautiful live flowering plant to show her appreciation for all that I do. |
| I inquired when I noticed my co-worker limping. I found out she suffered from plantar fasciitis. I mentioned I had some crutches she could borrow until she could see her doctor. I also gave her tips for what to say to her doctor regarding obtaining a handicap-parking permit. She, in turn, reciprocated and gave me a gift. She is so sweet! |
| A coworker of mine had emailed our unit earlier yesterday morning, outlining all the tasks that he was now in charge of and how his work schedule was going to be quite hectic for a while, so another coworker and I decided to take a portion of his workload. It contributed overall to our Chemistry team and helped him out. He was very grateful and it only took a bit of extra time out of our workday to accomplish this. Positivity rules! |
| Recently a field office reached out to me on a plate issue that ended up involving several vehicles that had the wrong plates. (Plates on vehicles were different than the plates on the system.) It was quite a mess but working together we got it straightened out. I was extremely surprised a week or so later when I received a formal “Thank you” that they had sent to my manager. In 10 yrs with the state I had never had a field office do that. It was wonderful, made my day, and helped me believe that something I do here matters to someone! |
| I was getting fuel at a local gas station the other day, and I saw that the pumps were full with about 5 vehicles waiting for fuel. I noticed this young man (couldn’t have been more than 19 years old) by himself trying to serve all of these customers. He was working hard, really hustling. When one pump would shut off he would run over to take care of it and then run to the next customer and start filling their tank and he continued to repeat that cycle as customers left and new ones came in. I also noticed the impatience of some customers because it was very visible in their body language. When he hung up my pump I said to him “ man you’re hustling there dude” he says with being a little out of breath “yeah” and off to the next customer he went. I got out of my vehicle and followed him, I handed him 2 dollars and said “ here get yourself a soda”. His face lite up and he smiled from ear to ear and said thank you. As I left I glanced over at the station and he raised his arm and waved at me. It was only 2 dollars but it seemed to mean so much to him at that time. A very small effort on someone’s part could make someone else’s day. I think we need more of this in the world. |
| It’s not much, but when the mornings started getting colder, I stopped into a local coffee stand located in a Fred Meyers store. After a few mornings, I realized how many people started their cold mornings so early, stocking shelves, prepping food, working at the checkout stations and making coffee. I now make a point to look each person I pass or interact with in the eye and say good morning, or comment on a holiday display they are setting up and once in a while I buy coffee for someone. I ask about the Barista’s morning and his walk to work, how he’s feeling and if he’s been sick and thank him for my perfect cup of coffee. |
| For co-workers: Anonymously leave a sticky not with a kind/encouraging message on co-worker’s desks Leave a mid-day, mid-week, mid-month or just because pick me up (fun size candy bar, dollar scratch it, sticker) In the wild: Pay for the person behind you in the drive thru (common, but effective) Ask to speak to a manager and give employee compliments instead of complaints Appreciate kindness in others…and tell them 😊 |
| These could be distributed to all state employees to pass out when we witness acts of extraordinary service. Perhaps they could be registered to be tallied quarterly for a state-wide prize or recognition on our website to the employee(s) receiving the most certificates. |
| Our manager is always so kind to personally greet us each morning. She also always says “How is everyone doing”, and if we need any assistance from her |
| Recently in my office, I have created a ‘Share the Love’ board, emphasizing the everyday thankfulness that we have for one another, by placing sticky notes on the board. In partnership with our office ‘Fun Club’, we are able to provide a monthly prize to folks who choose to share positive attributes about a coworker. In addition, I encourage other to hold the door open, leading by example. Little acts of kindness, like waiting a few extra minutes to hold the door open for other, hopefully will encourage kindness little by little! |
| I went to a goodwill a couple years back just to look around and overheard a mother and young daughter searching for dresses for a dance the daughter was going to. The daughter saw a dress she absolutely loved that was her size and begged the mom to buy it for her. I believe it was like $12 or something. And the mother said with empathy that she just couldn’t afford it. I walked over to the dress and grabbed it. The daughter looked at me and was very sad because I think she thought I was buying it and taking it home. I took it to the cash register and purchased the dress then walked over to the girl and told her that I hope she has a great time at the dance and gave her the dress. The girls face lit up and the mom started tearing up and thanking me. I told her she was very welcome |
| We came into the office on Tuesday morning found hand stamped and colored “Happy Fall” notes on desks from our front office staff member. She also does things like that for Christmas and if she knows when your birthday is. The effort and consideration of making a homemade greeting can really brighten up the day at the office. |
| I was at Starbucks by the office and I had just ordered my favorite holiday drink (of coarse my favorite way). The gentleman behind me asked about my drink and I asked him if he wanted to try my drink, so I ordered him a drink like mine and paid for it. I also bought my coworker who was with me her drink as well. |
| Gretchen Kingham made a pot of coffee and invited all 40 staff members to enjoy a cup. (We usually each brew our own individual cups rather than one person supply it for the whole staff.) |
| BIG smile 😊 as I greet people at work. I like to bring simple treats at work ie: pastries and sometime I pick a peer and give them a small gift of appreciation. I make sure to show and express gratitude and appreciation with my peers. My favorite is to always be ready and happy to help when someone is asking for help. I will continue to spread positivity because we all need it. |
| Changing out the 5 gallon water jug at the water dispenser for my co-workers. I don’t drink the water myself, but I know the jugs are not easy to manage for many of my co-workers. |
| Last week I went to Starbucks and was pleasantly surprised that the customer in front of me paid for my drink! |
| We all work in busy environments with deadlines and clients, last week was no different from any other. I found out a former co-worker had passed away, and our office was shorthanded and I did not have time to take a few minutes for myself. One of my fellow co workers took the time and a few of my phone calls so I could collect myself and go on with my day. It really is the little things. Thank you, to Elise Guevara, for being compassionate. |
| I had three locks made for my home, and two of the internal locking mechanisms didn’t work with my door, so I went back to the locksmith and he just upgraded me to the ones I needed, and said I didn’t have to pay for them, and that he was just being nice, so I went home and got the ones that didn’t work and brought them back to him. |
| Just one example is we work with Oregon Counties and one of our counterparts found out they have cancer. My co worker got a card which we all signed and sent with a coffee card. While this is a small gesture the person receiving it was touched and her day a bit brightened. These small things happen in my office all the time and I am so thankful to be able to work in an office where kindness is practiced liberally! |
| When I boarded the Max Blue line to Hillsboro yesterday afternoon, it was packed with standing room only. Apparently a train had derailed at Gateway and the trains were delayed. I have arthritis in my back and hips and standing on a train for an extended period of time, with all the jostling, has in the past resulted in my missing a couple of days of work to recover. Yesterday, when I asked for a seat, a gentleman stood up and gave me his. Of course I feel guilty asking to sit when a lot of people are having to stand but this gentleman was very kind. Also I observed another gentleman give up his seat so that an older lady could sit. I love Oregon and the kindness Oregon people show one another. |
| Here at the reception desk, We have a display that has Thank-You cards for anyone to take I also have a candy dish and often put candy out for my associates / visitors. |
| I recently lost a stray kitten that we found wandering around our house. We were just in the process of gaining his trust and fully expecting to be able to adopt him, and eventually bring him into our home. He unfortunately was hit by a car. I know he was just a little animal, but his loss was really felt. My co-worker, Christopher Sutter, asked me what was wrong, and I shared with him what had happened. The next day I found a beautiful card on my desk, acknowledging my loss. |
| I lost my husband in May of this year and have been trying to deal with my loss. Some days I am okay and other days my grief just hits me. Yesterday was a day that my grief hit me at work and I was very emotional but trying to stay busy as this seems to help. My co-worker Cora Belsher asked me how I was doing at the time and I expressed to her that I was emotional and trying to not cry. This was very close to my lunch hour and when my lunch hour came I left for my lunch. When I came back she had left me a beautiful orchid plant on my desk to help cheer me up. It really made me feel loved. She is a very kind person |
| I arrived to my desk one morning recently to find a surprise from a coworker – they had left me a note and snack thanking me for my assistance and energy after I had assisted their team with multiple business requests. They thanked me for my assistance and noted I was a “breath of fresh air” in the workplace. It was entirely unexpected and immediately put a huge smile- on my face, and in my spirit. Little did that person know, that thank you note and those kind words were the exact pick-me-up and boost I needed at the time, amidst all the work chaos, stress, and doubt. |
| Someone in the office gave me their last coffee pod rather than make a cup for themselves. On that day, this was a huge kindness to me! 😊 |
| I held the door open & wished a good day to a co-worker. |
| The other day I had to ride the Trimet MAX train home from work because my car was in the shop. It had been awhile since I’d used public transportation so I walked over to the ticket machine & was reading the fine print to make sure I selected the correct ticket/zone/price, etc. I’d only been reading for a short time & didn’t have my money out yet when I heard a friendly voice from behind me. I turned around & there was a middle-aged couple sitting there. They looked a little bedraggled & I wondered if they might be homeless. But then the man asked me if I needed help with my fare & offered to pay it for me. I smiled & thanked them but told them I had enough to cover it. It really touched me how willing they were to help me, a complete stranger, without hesitation, when they obviously didn’t have a lot to spare. |
| I drove around the State Building and headed towards the freeway. The traffic was slowing down even before getting to the ramp. I drove a few more blocks but it did not improve. The cars driving in the opposite directions started slowing down as well. One of the drivers in a car closest to me rolled down her window and I recognized a lady who works in the same building. She told me that construction work a block down on the left-hand site was slowing the traffic. I could not see that from where I was. I thanked her for her thoughtfulness and help. Her act of kindness saved me a lot of time as I would have been late for picking up my children from school. |
| I have nearly an hour commute. I always watch for someone needing to turn in front of me, or join the que, and allow them in whenever possible. I also wave each time someone gives me that gift. |
| I started a Mindfulness group here at the Gateway Branch. We meet once a month to do a meditation and art. I also started a gratitude circle that myself and a few co-workers participate in! I hope to include some activities in our all-staff meetings in the future! ❤ Yay!! |
| My co-worker brought in homemade brownies for the office as a thank you for the flowers and card we gave her when her mother passed away. An example of kindness on top of kindness! |
| During a weekend trip to a small town on the Oregon Coast and looking for some late night food a local overheard us and said he knew a place. He walked us to a small Yugoslavian restaurant that was closed. The owner, an old friend of his had just finished making her featured dish for the next day, a delicious pepper stew. We were welcomed in where we shared stew and stories for a couple hours. It was a great experience. |
| I like to remember those folks that don’t get recognized or appreciated often. I go into OSH a lot and the communication center staff are always so friendly and helpful. I recently brought them some treats to say thanks. |
| Last year when I was getting treatment for breast cancer, all of my co-workers were extremely supportive. Kim Leatherberry went out of her way to purchase a sign for my cubicle that was positive words of encouragement to help me through the tough time. Kim also recently brought in several Christmas items that belonged to her mother. She has been going through stuff and the fact that she thought of me when she saw something was incredible. |
| Ashley Morrow, DHS Child Welfare Certifier, District 6, takes it upon herself to be on top of cards and flowers for anyone retiring, having a baby, experiencing a death in the family, a fire, or any other life altering event. |
| I have a difficult co-worker at work that it’s hard to interact with her at times. My way of dealing with her is that when she takes a break. I try to take a break around the same time and I try to carry a conversation with her, meaning I try to find out things that she likes and just trying to get to know her better, even when she is mean to me at times. I later found out she is very lonely and has a big heart, she comes across very rude at times. She is very smart and good at her job. But I later learn that she means well, and she apologize for the way she has been acting towards me. I share with her my feelings and that I appreciate her coming to me and apologize like 10 months later. But it felt good to not give up on her. And the more I talk to her the more she ended up liking me. Anyways we became friends and she later retire. |
| I watch my niece and nephew one day a week (free of charge) so my brother and SIL can get an evening to do whatever they want. Tomorrow we’re playing Tiger Tales which basically means I have to come up with an elaborate story for us to act out that involves a stuffed tiger and make it a little bit scary (but not too scary). |
| Today I treated my co-worker to a cup of coffee. We enjoyed a nice chat about teamwork and kindness. |
| A stranger recently returned my wallet which I had lost to my house. The cash was missing (not taken by the returner) but got all my credit cards back. They had found them strewn around a parking lot nearby. |
| My co worked brought me a chai tea – for no reason at all. I really appreciated it, as I was having a not wonderful morning. |
| I paid for the order of the car behind me. Felt good. |
| During a recent rainstorm, I was standing next to my motorcycle getting suited up for the ride home when all of the sudden an umbrella was covering me until I got my helmet on. This was not requested, or expected by any means, but Janine Mayer ( [email protected] ) just saw me getting wet and stopped what she was doing and came out in the downpour to keep me dry. Janine has worked tirelessly with the annual Governor’s food drive and just all around has a heart of gold. If anyone deserves special mention or a positivity project prize, I’d like to nominate her. |
| At work if an employee does something really great I will send their manager an email complimenting them; I am sure that a lot of managers hear a lot of complaints and very little positivity. I send many of these throughout the year. |
| In 2018 and part of 2019, I coordinated the writing of DEQ’s IRM Strategic, Tactical and Operational plans. Last summer, some of our IRM plans and processes were audited. Upon returning in September after a few month off, Travis Luckey, DEQ’s CIO, told me that the audit depicted DEQ’s IRM plans very favorably, noting that they were among the best in the State. He thanked me and said much of the credit was due to my efforts. That made me feel VERY good about my efforts and the recognition that the IRM plans received. That feedback was very motivating for me. |
| I filled out a ‘Starfish’ Thank You card available in our Unit to be given to a Lead Worker of my neighboring Unit. For a week or so, there was only one Lead Worker to cover 3 units, TP1, TP3 and SDU. The Lead Worker for TP3, Emily, was being pulled in MANY different directions, yet every time she was asked for help, (several times from me), she was always calm and more than willing to assist whoever needed her, whether they were part of her Unit or not. We had just changed up all the units and there were a lot of uncertainties throughout all three units. I filled out the card and gave it to her manager, expressing my thanks for her willing assistance and calmness during the chaos. |
| I am writing this email to invoke positivity through revealing someone’s kindness. Today, while working on the basement, 4th and 2nd floors of PSB in the WRR putting up shelving, coat hooks and paper towel dispensers, I was approached by about 15 women to use the restrooms. ONLY 1, out of the 15, and she was the LAST person whom I had spoken to this morning, said ‘Good Morning’ and ‘GREAT job’, ALL of the other women just came over, looked at the restroom closed sign, huffed and puffed, then asked me if I was working in the restroom and what I was doing. After explaining the amenities that I was installing, for their convenience, each of the 14 sighed LOUDLY and stomped off murmuring, ‘Guess I’ll have to go to another floor, ugh’, creating a negative environment, connotation or feeling in regards to actually obtaining something good for their benefit in their restrooms. The 1 woman whose kindness stuck out above the rest, made my morning and in turn created a positive feeling for me and that is something I will remember and carry on throughout the day. |
| I was in a meeting and saw someone struggling to get a word in edgewise in a particular conversation. Someone else finally stopped the conversation and said, “(insert name), was there anything you wanted to share?” It was refreshing to see, and the person greatly appreciate it. |
| Drove one of our employees out to our Hawthorne yard so they could park their car there over night in a secure location while going on overnight business trip in state vehicle! |
| Recently my coworker stopped to admire my many plants (I have lots of plants in my cubicle because they generate oxygen, scrub the air, and make me feel close to nature even though I’m not near the windows.) She regretfully said she had a “black thumb” and always killed plants. I told her about pothos, a house plant that is virtually indestructible and thrives in fluorescent office lighting. But she was still doubtful. So later on I took a cutting of my healthiest pothos plant and put it in a bottle for her. She was happy and excited, but still worried it might die. But she checked it a few weeks later, and it is not only super healthy but grew LOTS of roots! (picture attached.) We were stoked! It makes me happy to see her growing her own little leafy friend so successfully. It brightens up her cubicle for sure. Who knows, maybe it will be the start of a lifetime of successful pothos parenthood for Susan, ha ha! I now have plans to get some of my other coworkers their own happy plant cuttings. |
| Recently, I’ve been working with a Mother who is really struggling and I am doing my very best to let her know that I care and that I want her to be successful and I’ll work hard on her behalf to help her help herself. Sometimes an Act of Kindness is to send a text message that simply states “Stay Safe” when you know that this could well be an issue for that person. Sometimes it means listening carefully when a parent needs to vent and finding something to affirm for that parent who is so very frustrated at that time. |
| I had a co-worker that sat by me and we made an agreement to greet each other every morning with a smile and a hug. This help jump start our day with a “Positive” outlook on work. My co-worker just recently left the agency to start her new adventures elsewhere, but she help make the day brighter! When she left she present me with a sign that reads, “Now is your Time to Shine!” |
| Mid-October 2019, the support staff (mind you, the support staff are 3 people in an agency of 13) approached our Board Chair, Adam Rhynard, regarding the option to telecommute. Adam, not only listened and offered encouragement during our initial discussions regarding the option to TCM, but he jumped to action, talking it over with the Business Operations Administrator and the State Conciliator, writing the policy and following through with diligent action. My first TCM day (after 24 years of service with the State of Oregon – in various levels of government service) was November 6th, 2019! |
| I like to bring unexpected trinkets for co workers when I have found something perfect for someone I work with. I try to find something that is meaningful. It is not very expensive for me and it helps them know they are valued. |
| I stopped at the store to buy some groceries. So when everything was added up I couldn’t find my debit card. I had forgotten that I had left my debit card in my other purse. I asked the cashier if they could just keep my items there until I could come back with my debit card to pay for everything. As they were asking a manager, the lady behind me in line quietly went over and slid her debit card in the reader and paid for my groceries. I was so surprised and as I thanked her, she said “no worries….. I know that sometime you will pay it forward.” |
| My good friend and coworker Amee exemplifies kindness every day. Just last week she brought in persimmons she had grown to share. It’s these little acts that make a huge difference. |
| I cannot share one specific act of kindness that I have observed most recently but I have observed staff helping out and supporting each other despite their own stress or workload. I have found this job becomes a lot easier when you have the support of not only your supervisors but your coworkers. Even when a person cannot physically help, having the emotional support while doing the difficult work we do helps people to stay positive. |
| I believe kindness is a way of life and because every day I great my co-workers with a smile & a compliment it has become contagious and I can expect several genuine kind words each day. |
| I try very hard to keep a positive attitude throughout my work. Whenever I send an email to anyone who does work for my section, I make sure to tell them that I appreciate everything they do to make our jobs easier. I make sure to shine light on the work that our support staff does to our executive team so that they see how much they do to support our work. (We couldn’t do anything without them!!) Recently, I was able to reflect all the hard work that one of our Executive Assistants did on behalf of our agency’s DEI council subcommittee for training to the Executive that she supports, and it made me so happy to give credit where credit was due. She appreciated it and remarked that it made her feel better about helping out, which made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. |
| Our administrative assistant, Elonda, and I had a symbiotic moment of kindness, which started with her giving me a handful of heart-healthy walnuts to snack, which moved into a heart-felt conversation about her childhood friend that passed away yesterday, so I gave her my condolences for the loss of her friend along with a (mutually agreed to) hug. |
| Started a “Enjoy, fill again, & pass on to a friend” plate. Once you receive the plate filled especially for you, pick another crew member, maybe someone you’d like to know better, and deliver it to them personally. Then pass the plate along within a week of receiving it! |
| I always put a positive comment or picture in most all my emails and I have positive “words of wisdom” posted all over my office. |
| The random act of kindness I experienced recently was from my neighbors. We just moved to Oregon and don’t really know anyone. My husband and I were struggling to get some furniture moved into our apartment. Our neighbors, which we’d never seen let alone met, came running to the rescue. They continued to help us move everything into our apartment and then helped us break down the boxes and take them to the compactor. They didn’t have to help us at all. It was so nice to have the help and also make new friends. I feel this act of kindness went above and beyond. I will definitely pay it forward. |
| Last weekend my husband and I were standing in line at a local restaurant waiting to pay for our meal. When it was our turn to pay, the gentleman behind us in line spoke up and said he would cover the charge for our meal. Needless to say, we were very surprised since he was a complete stranger. We thanked him for his generosity and he simply said “just pay it forward”. How were we to know that an opportunity awaited us outside the door? As we were leaving the restaurant and heading toward our vehicle, a woman with a bicycle approached us saying that she had been delayed at a prior appointment and now realized she was going to have to ride home in the dark (It was almost 7:00 PM). She asked if we might have a flashlight that she could borrow. My husband was shaking his head because he knew the old flashlight that he keeps in the vehicle had a dead battery and was no longer working. I immediately thought of the headlamp that I had put in the glove compartment only a few days earlier and ran to get it. I handed it to the woman as she was about to ride off – her smile and expression of relief was enough to “make my day”. |
| This week, I bought a stranger who was in line next to me a coffee, I complemented a colleague on a new hair style, and followed up with her about the weekend plans she had shared with me. This colleague works in a different department so I don’t regularly see her, but I believe she enjoys our conversations, and now seeks them out. |